andainya lelaki tahu..

Andainya lelaki tahu..
Apabila seorang perempuan jatuh cinta,
lelaki itu tidak semestinya punya segalanya
tetapi lelaki itu adalah segalanya di hatinya.

Andainya lelaki tahu..
Apabila seorang perempuan itu mengalirkan air mata,
itu bukan bermakna dia lemah,
tetapi dia sedang mencari kekuatan
untuk terus tabah menyintai lelaki itu.

Andainya lelaki tahu..
Apabila seorang perempuan marah,
memang dia tidak mampu mengawal perasaannya
tapi percayalah, itulah maknanya
dia sangat mengambil berat dan menyayangi lelaki itu.

Lihat saja pasangan yang baru bercinta, mereka jarang bergaduh.
Tetapi percayalah semakin bertambah sayang mereka pada seseorang,
semakin pula banyak pertelingkahan yang berlaku.

Andainya lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan bercakap banyak,
dia tidak pernah bermaksud untuk membuat anda rimas,
tapi dia mahu lelaki mengenalinya dengan lebih dekat.

Andainya lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan berkata dia mahu anda berubah,
itu bukan bermakna dia tidak mahu menerima anda seadanya,
tetapi dia mahu menjadikan anda lebih baik,
bukan untuk dirinya,
tetapi untuk masa depan anda.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan cemburu dan tidak percayakan anda,
bukan bermakna dia tidak sayang..
tetapi dia terlalu sayangkan anda
dan masih menganggap anda anak kecil
yang masih memerlukan sepenuh perhatian.

Kadang2 dia terlalu risau sekiranya terlalu percaya,
anda akan mengkhianati kepercayaan yang diberi.
Naluri keibuannya sangat kuat.
Dia hanya mahukan yang terbaik untuk anda.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan merajuk,
jangan kata dia mengada-ngada.
Dia bukannya mahu dipujuk dengan wang ringgit
atau hadiah sedozen,
tetapi cukup dengan perhatian
yang boleh buat perempuan rasa dihargai.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan jarang mengatakan ‘i love u’,
itu tidak bermaksud dia tidak menyintai
tetapi dia mahu lelaki itu merasai sendiri cintanya,
bukan hanya hadir dari kata-kata
tetapi juga melalui bahasa tubuhnya.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan kata dia rindu sama kamu,
dia benar-benar maksudkannya.
Apabila berjauhan, bayanganmu akan sentiasa bermain di mata.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan kata lelaki lain itu lebih baik dari kamu,
jangan percaya kata-katanya
kerana dia hanya mahu menguji kamu.
Dia mahu melihat sejauh mana kamu sanggup menjadi yang terbaik di matanya.
Walaupun sebenarnya memang kamulah yang terbaik di hatinya.

Selagi dia dengan kamu, percayalah,
walaupun perempuan menganggap masih ramai lagi yang lebih baik di matanya
tetapi di hatinya, kamu tetap yang terbaik.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan menjadi degil,
dia bukan bermaksud untuk menjadi degil
tapi dia mahu melihat
sejauh mana lelaki itu mampu bersabar dengan kerenahnya.

Percayalah, hati perempuan itu sangat lembut.
Andai kena caranya,
jangan terkejut kalau akhirnya dia menukar fikirannya dalam masa sesaat.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Apabila perempuan berkata,
“tolong tinggalkan saya!”,
dia tidak bermaksud menyuruh anda pergi selamanya.
Dia hanya mahu menenangkan fikirannya sebentar saja.

Apabila dia kembali tenang,
percayalah dia akan mencari anda semula.
Itu tandanya dia benar-benar menyintai anda.
Perempuan sukar untuk mengawal perasaan.
Dia terlalu emosional.
Tapi dialah yang paling menyayangi anda
dan sangat sensitif dengan perubahan pada diri anda.

Andai lelaki tahu..
Sememangnya Allah menciptakan lelaki dan perempuan itu
dengan perbezaan yang tersendiri.
Tetapi sekiranya mereka saling memahami,
mereka akan saling melengkapi dan menyempurnakan.

Perempuan itu diciptakan oleh Allah indah sekali.
Di sebalik air matanya,
tersimpan seribu satu kekuatan
yang bakal menjadikan seorang lelaki itu merasa selamat bersamanya.

Biarpun zahirnya perempuan itu tampak lemah
tapi dia punya kekuatan tersendiri
yang bisa menggoncang dunia
dan mungkin bisa pula membuat lelaki menjadi lemah kerananya.

Jadi hargailah kehadiran seorang perempuan dalam hidup anda
kerana dia didatangkan bukan dengan kelemahan sahaja
tetapi dia juga ada kekuatan untuk menyokong anda
dan membuatkan hidup anda lebih sempurna.
Dialah yang bakal menjadi perempuan bekerjaya, isteri juga ibu
yang terbaik untuk anak2 anda.

1 of my friends post it on fb 4 her hubby..hmm nice words n part of it is so true..agreed with the words above..

110411

alhamdulillah..already 27yrs i lived healthy on Allah's earth with beloved families n friends around me..luv u all!!millions thanks  for all the birthday wishes n prayers =) may Allah bless us..n special thanks to mr.fiance 4 the birthday treat huhu sorry 4 always give u hard time ;( may this birthday makes me being more matured n a good muslimah..amin hmm 27yrs old already huhu time pass by so fast!already went through many memorable n  meaningful phases of my life..sweet, tough, sorrow n happy were nicely blend together that taught me to be who i'm now..but hoping that i'll be a better person as time goes on..huhu didn't mean that i'm not gud now but just wanna be better..yes, always aim for the sky as if u fall..at least u can reach the clouds,rite?;) kalo dlu ms kt u..as i'm only in early 20s..always wondering how i would be when i'm 27 yrs old haha y 27?bcoz luv number 7 kot ;p but i guess not much changes kot hehe ye ke?eh byk jgk kot..dlu x sk mkn sayur msk lemak..tp skrg dh sk ;) dlu kecik2 x brape sk sgt msk lemak2 guna santan ni huhu tp skg dh bleh mkn huhu tu yg makin byk lemak kot ;p hehe bleh katakan a lot of food i like now as the time changing n i grow up hehe dats me who luv to eat sooo much!! ;) oh today i get a choc from our GB huhu dunno y she is so kind to give us the choc as birthday present..for me n my osmet..hehe my osmet's besday is today, 120411..a day after my birthday..em mayb sb besday kitorg dkt2 kot huhu smlm msk pejabat die wish n ckp xde ape nk bg..tup2 die pegi amik anggur nk suap..adoi arini bg choc lak..huhu org bg amik je la kn..rezeki jgn dtolak musuh jgn dcari ;) lastly, i'm so hepi on my birthday this year..the lovely date n with the people i love..hope all the happiness are always mine n we always be blessed by Allah..amin

1st song ;)

(Mariah)
I would give up everything
Before I'd separate myself from you
After so much suffering
I've finally found a man that's true
I was all by myself for the longest time
So cold inside
And the hurt from the heart it would not subside
I felt like dying
Until you saved my life

(Chorus - all)

Thank God I found you
I was lost without you
My every wish and every dream
Somehow became reality
When you brought the sunlight
Completed my whole life
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
Cause baby I'm so thankful
I found you

(Joe)
I would give you everything
There's nothing in this world I wouldn't do
To ensure your happiness
I'll cherish every part of you
Because without you beside me I can't survive
I don't wanna try
If you're keeping me warm each and every night
I'll be all right
Cause I need you in my life

(Chorus - all)

Thank God I found you (I'm begging you)
I was lost without you (so lost without you)
My every wish and every dream (every dream, every dream)
Somehow became reality
When you brought the sunlight (brought the sunlight)
Completed my whole life
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
Cause baby I'm so thankful
I found you

-Bridge- (Mariah & Joe)

See I was so desolate
Before you came to me
Looking back I guess it shows
that we were destined to shine
After the rain to appreciate
And care for what we have
And I'd go through it all over again
To be able to feel this way

(Chorus - all)

Thank God I found you
I was lost without you (lost without you baby)
My every wish and every dream
Somehow became reality
When you brought the sunlight
Completed my whole life (whole life)
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
Sweet baby I'm so thankful
I found you

(Chorus - all)
Thank God I found you
I was lost without you
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
My baby I'm so thankful
I found you

(Mariah)

I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
My baby I'm so thankful I found you 

juz final check da address @fb inbox to sent out for invitation card..n found out oid msg hehe 1st song dedicated by mr.fiance for me..em b4 our engagement during our newly in relationship ;) n now..juz 1 month left to change the status..insyaAllah after 1 month mr.fiance will b mr.hubby..n i  will b mrs.zuwairi =) pray that our relationship remains forever..oh y mrs.zuwairi not mrs.alif?hehe coz i like zuwairi much than alif ;p opss jgn salah sangka hehe nama je..org ttp sama..only luv da 1 n only, alif zuwairi ;) em mayb sb dh terbiasa refer alif as  4 my little cousin kot..they got same name 'ALIF' n both are my luv 1 so to b different prefer to mention mr.fiance as mr.zuwairi ;) em lg sgt2 suka huruf 'z' n luv da name of zuwairi so much hehe so unique kn?ssh nk jumpe ;) em k back to the song..also dedicated back to mr.hubby-2-b..n thanks Allah i found u too =)

the fate

[Yaasiin:82]
Sesungguhnya keadaan-Nya apabila Dia menghendaki sesuatu hanyalah berkata kepadanya: "Jadilah!" maka terjadilah ia".

last thursday i went for english course @ felda residence trolak..so enjoy the course!hehe  wondering wat relate the title, english course n Quran verse above?k da story begins..actually, on monday, PK miss read the letter n gave to us, both of year 6 english teacher to attend the course but the letter asked only 1 english teacher to sent out.. so i offered myself not to attend after read the course was about 'program gerak gempur UPSR 2011'..better give a way to the expert 1 since i only taught lower class..mn la tau kn nk bincang pape to up UPSR this yr..n i'm the newbie knows nothing huhu even deep in my heart really wanted to go haha sbnye??nk knal felda residence je ;p huhu ye la dr  mula dtg trolak plan nk stay kt ctu la konon2 b4 dpt umh..tp skali tgk harga tros cancel..so wondering how the residence looks like co'z from the outside nmpk x semengah mn pn ;) hehe tp ms otw nk g felda besout ari2..cm others part the view was so nice..huhu ari2 plan annual skol lunch kt  felda residence tp xjd sb mhl sgt n diorg ckp mknn xseberapa best sgt..so not worth it n went to other place..xdpt jugak nk pegi tgk..but the fate..finally i got to go there..thanks you Allah!the fate that the course was mine n it really suit with me..really knowledgeable course 4 me as a newbie..dh lama sgt teringin nk attend course about marking n how to teach english paper2..finally i got it!this course also focus to near miss pupils..yg gagal tp markah nk dkt2 lulus huhu my pupils la tu..6B!k.hanizah who should attend the course actually..but her uncle passed away so she texted to me to replace her..actually the night b4 she already texted me to b prepared as she not feeling well..huhu but i was hoping she will b ok..ye la ttba nk ganti cm rs x ready..tp dh takdir n subuh die msg mmg xdpt pegi sb pkck die mnggal..no choice n i have to attend..hmm the fate that course was mine kot..but thank you Allah for fulfill my wishes..n now i got the idea how to teach my pupils ;) huhu maklum la im not major in english so ms kt maktab dlu xbyk blaja..english credit hours pn skit je sb minor..tp seb baik my lecturer byk gk bg some gud info sb die kate kitorg mayb will teach english @skol after postg huhu n it was true since plenty of my friends taught english too..n this course really helpful for me hehe plus dpt gk knal felda residence trolak ;)

my day! ;)

the bright monday in my life although the weather is overcast today n im a bit sleepy ;) u make my day la my dear!cheer me up on the first school day after long break..tq so much!hehe luv u more ;* there're two things make me smile today..first thing from my beloved fiance n the second one is from my naughty pupils!so glad to see their happy faces after got their test papers back..especially 6B even the marks are not so high but 15 pupils pass really make me shock!huhu but a bit scary too..wondering n worried what their result for next test..is it stay the same or drop so much huhu pray 4 the best!hmm too much improvement for this 2nd test compared to 1st test, only 5 pupils pass..admit that paper 1 for this 2nd test is a bit easy..so most of them scored even the paper 2 is bad..hmm admit that pupils' good results are the happiest thing for teachers ;) oh 1 more..all of them have their own dictionary now!hihi gud2 coz since january i have told them to buy dictionary n until now i juz got it!sk2 ;) hope that all the happiness are always mine n much more will come ;) hehe greedy girl..wat ever it is..thank you Allah 4 everything that i have..

Just The Way You Are - Bruno Mars

Oh her eyes, her eyes

Make the stars look like they're not shining

Her hair, her hair

Falls perfectly without her trying

She's so beautiful

And I tell her every day

Yeah I know, I know

When I compliment her

She wont believe me

And its so, its so

Sad to think she don't see what I see

But every time she asks me do I look okay

I say

When I see your face

There's not a thing that I would change

Cause you're amazing

Just the way you are

And when you smile,

The whole world stops and stares for awhile

Cause girl you're amazing

Just the way you are

Her nails, her nails

I could kiss them all day if she'd let me

Her laugh, her laugh

She hates but I think its so sexy

She's so beautiful

And I tell her every day

Oh you know, you know, you know

Id never ask you to change

If perfect is what you're searching for

Then just stay the same

So don't even bother asking

If you look okay

You know I say

When I see your face

There's not a thing that I would change

Cause you're amazing

Just the way you are

And when you smile,

The whole world stops and stares for awhile

Cause girl you're amazing

Just the way you are

The way you are

The way you are

Girl you're amazing

Just the way you are

When I see your face

There's not a thing that I would change

Cause you're amazing

Just the way you are

And when you smile,

The whole world stops and stares for awhile

Cause girl you're amazing

Just the way you are

hehe mr.fiance juz dedicated this song 2 me ;) thanks so much, dear!u make my day la..:* hehe thought u'll not post it on my wall since already dedicated to me otw back to kL yesterday huhu kn xpsal2 dh senyum sorg2 dlm kete..smpi dh tertahan..at last terkeluar jugak gelak n then u laugh @me too..haha the boys juz blurr when we suddenly  burst out big laugh ;) hmm too much compliment in this song that i not deserve it..but appreciate it a lot,darling!luv u the way u're too my luv!:*

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..time is passing by so fast!huhu school break will end soon..only 3 days left ;( but i only have 2days @home huhu early morning of sunday will back to trolak..aiseh so many things not settle yet..thought i can help umi to pack the sweets n goodies into paper bags huhu mayb not much but at least..i can help to finish up some for my school's colleagues..hmm by hook or by crook..i must finish up the deco for hantaran..huhu sape suh gatai2 nk wat sendiri jugak ;p dh mula so i should finish up!tu la geram tgk bakul yg comel n bunga yg cute..lgpn puas ati bila dpt wat sendiri kn ;) dh 2 brg2 sumer dh bli..sb tu geram je tgk huhu at last duk godek2 cm ok lak..nnt bg kt org ssh lak nk suh deco2 cm yg kite nk kn ;) oh card dh siap!hehe xsabar nk tgk..kalo bleh rs cm arini gk nk g kT amik card ;) huhu tp kalo p sure keje terbengkalai..arini dh skt pinggang siapkan mark papers..puas ati dr pg smpi petang akhirnye dh siap all 6 papers..dh key in pn dlm sispol..lega sgt!so mlm ni dh bleh mula misi deco2 hantaran ;) hmm rs cm nk cuti lebih nk siap kn paper bags huhu xsangka juz 1 month n 1 week left..cptnye kn!hmm cm xcaya je i'll get married soon huhu lg xcaya dgn en.zuwairi ;) juz like a dream..hehe kalo igt2 blk..time kt kopu dlu knal nama je..lnsg x prnh btego sape kn..hehe skrg??a call everyday is a must!hihi kalo x..siap la die ;p hmm hope our day will go smoothly n everything runs as planned..pray hard to Allah everything goes well..n may Allah bless our love till the end..amin...hmm when talk about 'the end'..it makes me recall about tsunami at japan..juz watch some video @youtube about that..so scary n it make me realize about 'judgement day' or 'hari kiamat' huhu nowadays the natural disasters are so scary..hmm rs cm br je gempa bumi kt new zealand akhr bln2 ari2..n now kt jepun lak skali dgn tsunami..huhu tkt tgk video2 tsunami ni..moga Allah lindungi semua umat islam n may we're still in the right path..semoga hidup dan matiku dalam keimanan...amin..